Nonverbal cue: She looks dismayed when you casually propose she sucks your dick.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: She doesn’t touch you when you go in for a super steamy French kiss.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: She finds small distractions to move away from you and your erect penis.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: She finds other small distractions to move away from you and your erect penis when you follow her.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: She looks as if she ate poison after you sexily put your fingers in her mouth.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: She stumbles to grasps words when you inquire, “Where do you want me to fuck you?”

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

Nonverbal cue: After 45 minutes of you seducing her, she checks for an Uber.

What she really means: She doesn’t want to have sex with you.

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Virginia Dickens is a writer, improviser, and above all feminist residing in Harlem, NYC. She adores Big Gulps, Citibike and the GAP Factory store. Follow her on Twitter, Instagram & Medium